As a former and forever teacher's pet, I've discovered the do's and don'ts of getting a teacher to love you. You wouldn't believe the things I've gotten away with, just because my teachers like me! From skipped assignments and grade boosts, to being offered a position at a historic site, there are endless benefits to being a teacher's pet. And I'm here to give you a few basic tips on how to become one.
Tip #1
Start by paying attention. For some, this is a given. But it's a must. Don't play on your phone, don't fall asleep (no matter how boring), pay attention. Taking notes is also a good idea. This especially helps if the teacher is boring. But make sure you're at least attempting to absorb what they're saying.
Tip #2
If you have questions, ask them! This proves you're paying attention, and says that you're curious about the topic. Teachers love curious students, and will often go out of their way to help you. Don't ask stupid questions though. Some say there is no such thing as a stupid question. They are wrong. But if you're paying attention, then there should be no danger of a stupid question.
Tip #3
Do the stupid extra credit assignments. Seriously. Good for extra credit (obviously) and proves devotion to the class. Big help.
Tip #4
Get homework and assignments in on time. Especially for the first few weeks. You're building a basis of trust with the teacher. Work your butt off on those assignments.
Tip #5
Help other students. If you understand something that someone else doesn't? Try and help them. Tutor them unofficially. Or if you have the option, do it officially! This is more proof that you're paying attention and learning.
Tip #6
Be willing to try. Answer questions if you can, even if it might be the wrong answer. You don't necessarily need to be right to get a good reputation with your teacher. But don't flaunt your knowledge or intelligence. If you have all the answers, don't give all of them. Just enough to keep yourself present. Don't get smug. Don't get cocky. Stay humble and pleasant at all times. Avoid being overly self-deprecating though. Its that safe middle ground you're looking for.
Tip #7
Don't cause trouble with other students. Seriously. If there is already a teacher's pet, don't fight him or her for the position. A teacher can have more than one pet. And if they can't, you can still develop a good relationship with them.
These are just a few things that should help you get started. Once you've been doing it for a while, being teachers pet will simply become habitual. Many of these tips just have to do with being a good student. If you follow all of these tips, you will likely do better in the class than if you don't. But a very important part of becoming a teacher's pet is the part I can't teach you. It's learning how to read the teacher, and figure out what he or she wants in a student, then mimicking it. I wish you the best of luck in your endeavor. If this has worked for you, or you have other tips you'd like to share, please put them in the comments below.
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